Post by bluesand1313 on Sept 10, 2013 18:09:48 GMT -8
So basically, I've been hooking up with this guy. And I guess it's also a situation i've managed to wiggle myself into as well as some guy advice. Lets start with the guy advice and move onto the more complex topic later.
Well, I think it's safe to say that we kiss. Who doesn't? And now I'm asking; before he would never really get totally into it, just kind of you know, kiss and stuff. But today he was actually really into it (I think? This is what I need your help on lol) and was like kissing really hard and fast and stuff. Does this mean anything, or is it just another kiss?
Next, the situation. Him and my best friend had a .. fight. But he didn't realize he did anything wrong. And so I told her she should tell him that she was upset so he can fix it, but she never did and now she's been depressed. When she was crying (she's just really emotional, he didn't do anything that bad) she told me to not see him anymore. At the time I was mad at him for hurting my best friend and I said 'I know'. But after a week of thinking, I couldn't not see him anymore. I couldn't just choose. And so while we were kissing there was a knock at the door and I panicked and told him that if it was my friend, she can't know he was here. Turns out it was just some delivery guy, but because I blurted that out (being so sure it was her!) I had to awkwardly explain to him that she was upset by the thing he did. And then he had to leave (He was on his way out when I had to tell him so he didn't leave because of what I said.. I hope.) and it was just kind of awkward and stuff.. He said he would talk to me best friend about it but I'm scared she's going to find out I was with him and told him because I said I wouldn't do that and I wouldn't have if it wasn't for the delivery guy and I was going to talk to her and tell her that I couldn't just stop seeing him but it never seemed like the right time because she's been so depressed about little things like somebody bugging her in the wrong way lately it never seemed like the right time.
This is just a huge mess...
Well, I think it's safe to say that we kiss. Who doesn't? And now I'm asking; before he would never really get totally into it, just kind of you know, kiss and stuff. But today he was actually really into it (I think? This is what I need your help on lol) and was like kissing really hard and fast and stuff. Does this mean anything, or is it just another kiss?
Next, the situation. Him and my best friend had a .. fight. But he didn't realize he did anything wrong. And so I told her she should tell him that she was upset so he can fix it, but she never did and now she's been depressed. When she was crying (she's just really emotional, he didn't do anything that bad) she told me to not see him anymore. At the time I was mad at him for hurting my best friend and I said 'I know'. But after a week of thinking, I couldn't not see him anymore. I couldn't just choose. And so while we were kissing there was a knock at the door and I panicked and told him that if it was my friend, she can't know he was here. Turns out it was just some delivery guy, but because I blurted that out (being so sure it was her!) I had to awkwardly explain to him that she was upset by the thing he did. And then he had to leave (He was on his way out when I had to tell him so he didn't leave because of what I said.. I hope.) and it was just kind of awkward and stuff.. He said he would talk to me best friend about it but I'm scared she's going to find out I was with him and told him because I said I wouldn't do that and I wouldn't have if it wasn't for the delivery guy and I was going to talk to her and tell her that I couldn't just stop seeing him but it never seemed like the right time because she's been so depressed about little things like somebody bugging her in the wrong way lately it never seemed like the right time.
This is just a huge mess...